Preparing for Marriage

CLASS INFO

 
Date: September 23, 2018 - November 4, 2018 (Oct 28 off due to men's retreat)
Time: Sundays from 1-2pm
Place: The Centre (777 Homer Street)
Room: TBA
Cost: $75 per couple - pay HERE
 

Date: January 20, 2019 - February 24, 2019
Time: Sundays from 1-2pm
Place: The Centre (777 Homer Street)
Room: TBA
Cost: $75 per couple - pay HERE 

 *When paying, please change the "Designation Fund" drop down to "Preparing for Marriage Registration".

Register for this class by downloading the form below. You can drop of the completed form at the Connect Centre on Sundays, at the office during weekdays, or by email to office@wchurch.ca.

“A man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
Genesis 2:24


Westside’s Preparing for Marriage course addresses topics such as God's Purpose for Marriage, Oneness, Compassionate Communication, Roles and Responsibilities, Financial Oneness, and Sex.

THERE ARE 3 MAIN COMPONENTS TO THE COURSE:

1) Class time 
Classes take place from 1:00 – 2:00 PM each Sunday afternoon at Westside Church for the duration of the course.

2) Homework
We will be going through the book “Preparing for Marriage God’s Way” by Wayne A. Mack. This book is filled with personal and couple assignments that will need your full attention so that your mentor time is fruitful. It will require you to dedicate a few hours a week to accomplish the assigned homework.

***We suggest picking up the book at least 4-weeks from the start of class to work through the first 3 chapters prior the start date. (You can get your book and pay for the course Mon-Friday 9-5PM at the Center)

 
3)     Mentor Meetings
Part of the strength of this course is that each couple will be paired up with a mentor couple from within Westside church. These volunteer Mentor couples all come with a wealth of practical marriage experience, a love for Jesus and have a heart to help those that are just approaching marriage. You will set up an additional time to meet with your mentor couple either during the week or on Sunday before or after class.

  • You will be expected to make the effort to travel to meet with your mentor couple each week.
  • Mentor couples are generally limited to those from within Westside.
  • If you are from another church we ask that you contact your Pastor about finding a mentor couple.
  • If you don't have a home church we will work with you to arrange a mentor to meet with you as a couple.

Additional resources will be given at the time of the course, and we also suggest listening to the following sermons on marriage together as a couple.

Sermons by Dr. John Piper found here.

To apply for Westside’s Preparing for Marriage course, download and complete this fillable form. Completed forms can be emailed to office@wchurch.ca, dropped off at the Connect Centre on Sundays, or dropped off at the Westside Church Office during the week.

**This application is an interactive PDF form. If you fill it out on your computer using Adobe Reader or Acrobat, please ensure prior to emailing it to us that your form answers were saved and are visible. If you run into trouble with this, print it out and either scan and email it to us, or drop it off in person. Questions about the form? Email office@wchurch.ca.

Upon receipt and approval of your registration form, you will be asked to pay Westside Church a registration fee of $75 per couple, which covers the cost of the course books, snacks, printed materials, and administrative costs. 

PLEASE NOTE: We will do our best to ensure all who have applied are enrolled in the session they request; however, due to the high demand for this class you may be put on a wait list or asked to enrol in the next session. The Family ministry department takes into account the date of your wedding (if one has been set), whether you are engaged or not, and whether you attend Westside when determining who will be admitted into each session. If there is other information that would be helpful for us to know please include it with your application. Please wait for confirmation on enrolment before paying your course fee.

A COUPLE OF COMMON QUESTIONS:

  1. Do we have to be engaged to take the course?

    A. No, but you need to be a couple that is well established and seriously contemplating marriage. Based on our desire to keep the class smaller in size, engaged couples will take priority over dating couples if necessary.
  2. Is a course on preparing for marriage really necessary?

    In the biggest of ways. If you’re like most couples you’re going to be spending a lot of time and money on your wedding ceremony. Our advice is that you take some of that time and money and use it to invest in the rest of your lives together. It may save you a lot of time and money in marriage counselling later.

Have questions? email office@wchurch.ca
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